Last week I spent two hours updating my Blogroll. The process began with a print-out of my current blogroll which I compared to my bookmarks for diabetes blogs in Safari. I found about 25 bookmarks which needed to be added to the list. One by one I typed in the name of each new blog and embedded the link to the website.
I had known for months that I needed to work on my blogroll, but the chore stayed at the bottom of my To-Do list. What inspired me to finally tackle the project was the Wednesday, Sept. 3 DSMA TweetChat. The subject was whether the Diabetes Online Community (DOC) should have a governing body along with standards of conduct and lots of rules. No one seemed to think that was a good idea and the discussion moved to the topic of helping newcomers to the DOC find a foothold in the maze of diabetes social media. Blogrolls were mentioned.
Blogrolls show up in many different forms. Some like mine are long lists by category (Type 1, Type 2, Parent) with no description or rating of the blogs. Others are shorter lists with titles such as “My Favorite Blogs” or “DOC Friends”. One of my favorite blogrolls is by Scott at Rolling in the D because he has personalized his list with brief and occasionally witty descriptions of each blog/blogger. A nice feature on Blogger sites is a “live” blogroll that automatically updates with recently published posts. Many DOC writers have chosen to not have blogrolls at all.
What is the purpose of a blogroll? When I began reading diabetes blogs many years ago, blogrolls were a magical pathway to “meeting” other people with diabetes. Without Twitter and Facebook, there was really no other way to learn about other websites. The first blog I read was either Scott’s or Kerri’s and then it was a dot-to-dot adventure finding other people sharing their stories. My guess is that newcomers to the Diabetes Online Community (DOC) still use blogrolls in this fashion while most blogrolls are largely ignored. My blogroll had about 200 views in the last year. I hope that some viewers used my list to find other blogs. Unfortunately I suspect that most of the views were just by other bloggers seeing if they were on the list!
The main reason that blogrolls are impossible to keep current is because there are now hundreds of diabetes blogs and new ones appearing all of the time. If you check out most blogrolls, you will find a dated list that highlights many established D-blogs while including few new blogs and being littered with many blogs that have been abandoned for years.
As an experiment, I checked out the blogrolls of the first twenty blogs listed in my Safari bookmarks. I chose 3 favorite blogs in addition to my own to see if they were listed in any blogrolls. These 3 blogs are by prolific Type 1 writers who like me have been around for about 1-1/2 to 2-1/2 years. Of the twenty blogs I checked out, 5 did not have blogrolls. My blog was listed on 5 out of the remaining 15 blogrolls. Another fantastic newish blog was listed on only 3 blogrolls. One was seen on 6 out of 15 and the last one had more presence being on 9 out of 15 blogrolls. These stats are not meant to criticize anyone; rather they emphasize how flawed most blogrolls are. Even if you are able to keep adding all of the new blogs, when do you take an inactive blog off the list? The ultimate criteria is probably when the link doesn’t work anymore. But how old is too old?
When blogrolls were mentioned in the September 3 DSMA TweetChat, Scott Johnson immediately tossed out the question of the day. Typical of DSMA, the discussion quickly went off-topic and morphed into shrimp rolls and carb counts.

How do I feel about this? On one hand, it is frustrating to be left off lists by people whom I know read my blog regularly. At the same time, I know that it is meaningless because I don’t think blogrolls are used for much of anything and most of us rarely look at them. So after this post I think I will go back to totally ignoring them.
Back to the September 3 DSMA TweetChat. Although I don’t believe that the DOC needs a governing board or rules, I wonder if something like a DBlog Central website would be useful. This site could maintain a complete and updated blogroll with descriptions and tags to help users navigate the DOC. A central website could also be a hub for sharing information with all diabetes bloggers on things like starting a blog, finding diabetes graphics, Twitter names, current campaigns of the DOC such as Spare a Rose, and a calendar of events.
I can’t envision how something like this could be created. Maybe we should have a governing board for the DOC and “they” could set up the website…. Yeah, right! I think that most of us would say that the magic of the DOC comes from its somewhat chaotic nature and no one wants to regulate its constant evolution. Why should we change something that isn’t broken?
In the meantime I plan to continue to have a blogroll. If you’re not on it and would like to be, please contact me.

As I move to wrap up this series, I am reminded that I am often accused of writing an epistle when a sentence will do the trick. I cannot help it. I am trained as a bureaucrat, so I tend to spin in place a lot with my writing. That is a bad habit I am working to break. If you have stuck with me up until now, I hope you have found the effort you expended a wise investment.

the Blogabetic
Last week I had my annual eye exam and started to write about it. Fortunately the appointment went well and as I started to write, I started to wonder why anyone else would have any interest in the appointment. Sure, you all like me and want to know I’m doing well. But a whole blogpost worth of doing well? Maybe not that. There is a certain self-absorption that is present in most blogs and mine is no exception. At the same time I am uncomfortable with too much personal trivia and you won’t see me posting blood glucose numbers on Facebook or Twitter. (The one exception is “Twinsies” when my Dexcom G4 and Freestyle meter have matching numbers.)
Is it to become famous? I admit that one of my aims in starting a blog was to increase my presence in the Diabetes Online Community (DOC). I hoped to become a little fish in what is a big pond for those of us with diabetes and a little pond when it comes to the whole wide world. The measure of my new-found fame is that now when I Google myself, I find images and links. Previously I did not. To put this search engine fame into perspective, my dog shows up in “Abby the Black Lab” Google searches and prominently sports her flowered hat and DSMA crown in the image section.
Sue from New York and I first came into contact with each other through the American Diabetes Association message board. My husband had gone on Medicare and discovered that his Continuous Glucose Monitor (CGM) would not be covered by Medicare, and I needed to get in contact with someone who might answer some questions as to what I needed to do to fight the guideline that Medicare had that prevented the coverage of the CGM. Sue from New York posted an answer to my CGM inquiry even though she wasn’t on Medicare as yet. I think that we may have chatted very briefly on the forum before I asked her for her email address so that we could communicate privately. After emailing for a month back and forth, I asked her for her phone number. I thought it would be easier to speak on the phone. She sent me her phone number and we started talking on the phone a few times a week and really became good friends. At some point, she suggested that I contact Laddie about doing some blogs on Laddie’s Test Guess and Go site.
Steve: I thought that since we had gotten through it with our son Steve, who was diagnosed as Type 1 at age 4, that hers wouldn’t be as bad because she was diagnosed as a Type 2. I was worried, but I knew I could handle it.
Sue from PA: Emotionally, what’s it been like to live as the spouse of a Type 1 diabetic?
My husband Steve and I just returned from a car trip to Maryland and West Virginia to visit relatives. On the way home I had decided I wanted to meet Sue from Pennsylvania, my fellow frequent guest blogger on Laddie’s Test Guess and Go blog. Sue and I had initially met on the ADA Type 1 board a year and a half ago, and since then we have talked on the phone twice weekly and become good friends. I live in a town called Farmington in the Finger Lakes region of western New York, and Sue lives in Harrisburg, the capital of Pennsylvania. While we were there Sue and her husband Marc took Steve and me to Hershey, where we took the Great American Chocolate Tour. A wonderful outing for diabetics, don’t you think? LOL
Marc: I was diagnosed at age 49. I started losing weight very slowly but continuously. One day I realized my pants size dropped from a 38” waist to a 34” waist. Then a 32” fit well. As this was happening, friends were taking notice that I had lost a lot of weight. These same friends were asking me if I felt okay. My answer was that I felt fine. What really got my attention was a trip from Harrisburg to Atlanta. One day in the middle of our stay in Atlanta, I noticed that I was going to the bathroom approximately 4 or 5 times each hour. On the trip home (872 miles), I had to pull over at every single rest stop to go to the bathroom. I thought that I might have a urinary tract infection. I went to my doctor, where he pulled some blood and informed me that I had Type 2 diabetes.
Marc: How has your life changed since being diagnosed as a Type 1 diabetic?
It was the first in-person meeting for the two Sue’s. Inspired by the Conversations project, they decided to rope this husbands into discussing diabetes. They didn’t interview their own spouses; they talked with the other Sue’s spouse. The result is two very interesting conversations. The first will be published tomorrow and highlights Sue from NY who has Type 1 diabetes along with Type 1 Marc from PA. Their stories are remarkably similar as both were initially misdiagnosed as Type 2 because of their age.